Author: Jane Hudson, lgbtq+ blogger
Over the last few months, I’ve been following a quiet but powerful shift happening across parts of the United States — many LGBTQ+ people are packing up and leaving the states they once called home. And while this may sound like just another social trend, it’s actually about something much deeper: freedom, safety, and belonging.
I remember chatting with a friend from Texas last year who told me she was moving to a more inclusive city because she was tired of feeling like she had to “explain” her existence every day. It wasn’t about politics for her; it was about peace of mind. That conversation stuck with me. And now, seeing more people do the same, it’s clear this isn’t an isolated choice — it’s a movement driven by the environment people live in.
The silent migration
Across the U.S., many queer people are quietly relocating from conservative (“red”) states to more open-minded (“blue”) areas. It’s not about escaping debate — it’s about living without fear or judgement. When policies start limiting healthcare rights, school discussions, or even personal identification, it naturally creates anxiety. Nobody wants to spend their life defending who they are just to buy groceries, go to work, or apply for a driver’s license.
And this shift doesn’t just affect individuals — it affects economies too. When a large number of talented people move away, businesses lose skilled workers, and entire communities lose diversity and creativity. I’ve seen this in the marketing industry as well. Clients often talk about how important inclusivity is in hiring, branding, and even customer relationships. So when people move to places that embrace diversity, the ripple effect is felt everywhere — from workplaces to social spaces.
A worrying step for trans travellers
At the same time, another story caught my attention — a recent U.S. court decision that allows tighter restrictions on gender-marker changes in passports. For many trans individuals, that tiny “M” or “F” on a travel document isn’t just a letter; it’s a reflection of identity.
I can’t imagine how stressful it must feel to plan an overseas trip, only to worry about whether your passport reflects your true self. For digital nomads or freelancers who travel for work, this adds another layer of anxiety. I’ve worked with creators who rely on international collaborations, and I can see how something like this could disrupt their entire lifestyle.
It’s one of those situations that reminds us how deeply personal identity documents are. Most of us don’t think twice before handing over our passports at an airport — but for some, it’s a moment filled with fear of being questioned or humiliated.
The contrast with Australia
Here in Australia, things are relatively calmer — though not perfect. I’ve met plenty of people who say they still feel judged or misunderstood, especially in smaller towns. But compared to what’s happening overseas, there’s a sense of stability here. We’ve seen progress in acceptance and policy, even if there’s always room to grow.
The lesson I take from all this is that inclusivity isn’t just a political topic — it’s about creating an environment where people feel safe enough to live and express themselves freely. Whether it’s through laws, workplaces, or everyday conversations, the space we build around us shapes lives more than we realise.
My takeaway
Watching these changes unfold has made me more aware of how deeply our surroundings influence our peace of mind. It’s easy to say “just stay and fight,” but sometimes, choosing where to live becomes an act of self-care. People move not because they want to abandon their roots, but because they’re choosing mental health over constant stress.
As someone who works with creative professionals every day, I’ve learned that true creativity only thrives where people feel accepted. That’s something every community — and every business — should remember.
If there’s one message from all this, it’s simple: belonging shouldn’t depend on your postcode.
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